If you’re feeling stuck, arguing often, or just not as close as you used to be, it might be time to get some help. I work with couples who are in crisis, but also with those who just want to reconnect. You don’t need to be on the edge of breaking up to come in. If things feel hard and you’ve tried to sort it out on your own with no success, I can help you both understand what’s going on and where to go from here. Some couples come at the beginning of their relationship to be sure that they are on the right track. Couples often have difficulty communicating. We explore the dynamic between you to understand exactly what is happening. We discover what you each need to change in order for you to bring the best out in the other so that the space between you is positive and fun and a good space in which you and your children can thrive. 

That’s very common. One person often feels more ready than the other. If your partner doesn’t want to come, you can still book a session on your own. I’ll listen, help you unpack what’s happening, offer you some communication skills and give you space to figure out your next steps. Sometimes, just starting the process can encourage your partner to join later but even if they don’t, there’s still value in having support for yourself.

Couples come to me for all kinds of reasons. Some are arguing a lot. Some have stopped talking altogether. Others are dealing with trust issues, feeling distant, or struggling with parenting and daily stress. Sometimes the issue is something that happened years ago, and sometimes it’s just a slow drifting apart. You don’t need to name the problem perfectly before coming in, we’ll work it out together.

Yes. I see couples who are unsure if they should stay together, and others who have already started talking about ending things. Sometimes counselling helps people repair the relationship. Other times, it helps them separate in a way that’s more respectful and clear. Either way, I help you both understand what’s going on and make thoughtful decisions. You won’t be pushed in one direction, I’m here to support whatever path feels right for you.

Sometimes couples come in hoping to fix everything and realise that the relationship isn’t working anymore. If that happens, I’ll help you work through it with care and honesty. Counselling doesn’t always save the relationship but it can give you both clarity, closure, and a better understanding of yourselves. If you do decide to part ways, I’ll support you through that too.